Showing posts with label childhood recollections. Show all posts
Showing posts with label childhood recollections. Show all posts

Friday, September 30, 2011

Tuesdays with Mrs. Mix

I took piano lessons when I was a kid. I had a few different teachers.

My first teacher was my oldest sister. It didn't work out so well. The whole respect thing. I really didn't give her any. Because, well, she was just my sister. But she was a great pianist.

My third teacher (did you notice how I skipped the second teacher? That's because that's where the real story is. I'll get around to that in a minute.) was a nice lady. When we went to piano lessons at her house, it was a process. Both of my older sisters and a couple of our neighbors took lessons from her, so we all went to lessons together. One of my friends was the piano teacher's next door neighbor, so all I wanted to do was go over to Jesse's house and play. Forget piano. And we would jump on her trampoline and play tether ball while I was waiting for my sisters and neighbors to finish their lessons.

But my second teacher, oh my second teacher. Here's where it gets good. I have already confessed to my mom, so I feel like I can share this now without too many repercussions. I hope.

Anyway, Mrs Mix. She was my second piano teacher. I was eight years old. I don't even know how my mom found Mrs. Mix. She was the pianist / organist for a local church, I'm not sure what denomination-- in Rifle, Colorado. I've talked about Rifle before here, here, here, and here. I grew up there. It was a small town. Very cozy, hugged on all sides by friendly mountains that our family explored regularly.

My piano lessons from Mrs. Mix took place at her church. The church creeped me out. This church was dark and musty and as soon as I walked through the deeply stained, intricately carved wood doors with their substantial iron handles, the soaring ceilings seemed to press in on me. The towering, heavily-draped windows let in narrow beams of lazy light, that were choked out by the overwhelming haziness of the place.

I would walk down the aisle to the front of the church, past the pews, the carvings, the statues of an anguished Christ that were foreign to me. I could pick up the scent of ancient hymn books, resting on the cold, hard benches, patiently waiting for Sunday's congregation. My ears heard the voices of ghostly choirs and the organ pipes with their hauntingly silent melodies and goose bump-inducing absence.

The piano at which my lessons were taught was old, dark, smelled of damp wood. And the bench moaned when I shifted on it. Mrs. Mix sat beside me in a high-backed, ornately chiseled wooden chair, listening to my offering on the piano with which she was so familiar. My eight year old fingers clumsily danced across those keys, presenting the fruits of a week's practice as fast as they could so that I would not have to spend any more time in that place of worship than was absolutely necessary.

I dreaded Tuesdays. Tuesdays were piano lessons with Mrs. Mix at the church. My sisters didn't take lessons with me at the church and I was supposed to walk directly to the church by myself after school for my lesson.

Usually, I would enjoy a leisurely stroll home from school with my friend Mindy where we would typically stop by The Corner Store for a treat. But not on Tuesday. Tuesday was a sprint. A sprint to the church. I ran as fast as I could so that I could get to the church before Mrs. Mix. Because getting to the church before Mrs. Mix meant that I avoided entering the cold, damp church. I loved those Tuesdays that I rounded the corner and saw no orange Ford Bronco parked on the tree-lined street in front of the towering place of worship. Those were the days I secretly prayed for. Those lucky Tuesdays I would run home and tell my mom that Mrs. Mix never showed up for lessons.

I can't recall how long my lessons with Mrs. Mix lasted. But certainly long enough for that church to make an impression on an eight year old girl. But not long enough to turn me into a career sprinter.




Thursday, July 9, 2009

Revenge

Huband's Note: I recently recieved notice that MY blog (did you know I had one?) which has been gathering dust will be shut down at the end of July. I've gone through my posts and have decided to share some a few that are in the spirit of this blog here to preserve my thoughts. The rest aren't important enough to keep online - for now.

Originally posted Wed., July 30 2008 as a recollection of a childhood memory:

The rules were simple: Complete and total annihilation and revenge. Revenge from last summer’s events, and the year before (we couldn’t let it become a pattern). Well, there was one other rule out of necessity: Stealth. We had to hide well from the enemy.

The other club, (we’ll just call the south-side gang to protect friendships that formed in later years) had completely dismantled our fort the previous year (and the previous year to that) and used the materials to build their own. Our fort was gone without a trace. Yes, the one we carefully built from the rotting wood we found in a vacant lot leftover from a failed building project. Because this had happened multiple years, we had to take a stand. We would take no more of this abuse.

It took us well into November to find the new location of their fort. The goal was simple: we had to stealthily dismantle theirs and take the stuff to the new location of our fort. There we would enjoy the spoils of our efforts and expand our fort into the awesomest-coolest, most radical fort that any of us had ever seen – complete with a trampoline level, rope fire pole exit and skateboard ramp. But we also faced worry that yet another club (which we’ll call the north-side BMX Bike gang) would find our fort as we built it in the gulley in their unspoken territory.

We got an early start on that balmy June day. It was 7:30 a.m. and we knew that our enemies were distracted watching the latest re-run of Voltron. But we had seen in the weekly paper’s TV guide that it was an episode we had all seen already. The planets were aligning perfectly. Revenge was nearly ours.

So we set out that fateful day in search of the fort. It was easily found from previous spying expeditions. These scouting expeditions had also revealed the location of each of the carefully placed booby traps meant for us and the Even-farther south gang that threatened this fort’s unnatural habitat.

We went quickly to work, dismantling each and every nail, every knot and freeing each board from its wrongful imprisonment. We then loaded it all up on the wagons, bikes and skateboards we were able to bring with us that day. We carefully and quickly took the materials to our fort’s new location and started building. Deep into the day we worked until the mansion-fort was completed. It was a masterpiece. It was perfect. It was the fort of all forts. The builders of Fort Knox and Captain Moroni would be proud.

The rest of the summer we enjoyed the fruits of our spoils. The fort was great. And then one day in September it was gone without a trace. The cursed treasure of wood could not be held by any one man (or club) for long. It was not the BMX gang. It was not the South-side gang, or the Even-farther south gang who took it. In later years we came to believe it was some of the older kids – perhaps even by best friend's older brothers – who took the loot for their own use. But the mystery remains until this day….